So I am perusing some personal ads thinking how there is no chance in hell I would get a date and in the process I notice that two out of three women advertise themselves as BBW.
This got me thinking (what else am I to do sitting here all alone): just because you are B(ig) and a W(oman) do you automatically qualify for the second B(eautiful)? I have to disagree. We all know that FHM doesn’t stand for Fat Handsome Man, and there is no assumption of beauty in other dating acronyms like HWP.
So next time humbly list yourself as just a BW and let your date decide if the other B is appropriate.






I’m not razzing on fat people (I could stand to drop some pounds), but I’ve seen some pretty ugly fat people. I’ve seen some pretty ugly skinny people, too. So, I guess ugly knows no boundaries.
You really should come to a blogger gathering. You could make fabulous friends there and not have to sit at home alone and look through the personals.
Thanks,Heather.I’ll try to show up at the next one.
Meesha, I can’t find an email address for you. I was going to say you should contact Spyder and have her put you on the KC Bloggers email list. Then you’ll know of any upcoming blogger happy hours.
I think the second B is to distinguish it from “BW” (Black woman). But your point is well taken.